I completely agree with your observation. Inmtersting that some of these women that aren't escorts, would consider escorts beneath them. They wouldn't agree or acknowledge your observation. The clear difference is, as an escort the arrangement is discussed and agreed and out in the open, and both parties know where they stand, whereas in relationships the arrangement can sometimes not be discussed just accepted by both parties. Many women marry for money and/or stay with someone for money. Personally I couldn't do it, I'd rather earn my own money and be financially independent.
Monday, 21 February 2011
why do you think men and women are so fixated on sex? and why do you think there is such a stigma about nudity? deep questions i know, lol, but really really interested in your answer(s).
I don't think everyone is fixated on sex. Some are some aren't. The people who are fixated on it, are for different reasons. Some do it to boost self confidence, some do it for thrills, some are sex addicts, some stress relief... all sorts of reasons.
The stigma about nudity comes from us being pudish Brits. I think the human body is beautiful and a perfect example of natural art. I've never had any issue with nudity. I remember my dad being horrified when I showed him my first nude photograph. I had modeled for a lad on a photography course at aged 17, but previously I'd done life drawing at uni, so it was no big deal to me. The naked body can be beautiful without being sexual.
Tuesday, 8 February 2011
hi, i came across a youtube video of you talking about your ex escorting days, and your book. firstly, i am ordering your book when i bank my money tomorrow! i've just starting escorting, and it's so nerve-racking! can you give me some hints/tips? xx
Hi thanks for getting in touch and your interest in my book. The best way to order my book is directly from me (please contact me via the enquiry form on here) ... http://www.thegirlfriendexperience.tv I also offer a paid escort advice service/coaching here... http://www.rebeccadakin.com/how-to-become-an-escort/
Monday, 7 February 2011
Following a relationship ~(18 months) - How long is acceptable before dating again?
when ever you feel ready to. Please ask some none generic questions Dave! I'm going to have to delete the others - I'm sorry lol :)
Thursday, 9 December 2010
Do you think girls are happier than boys? In general. Interested to know what you think. Think there is a lot of pressure on people these days to be seen to conforming to the stereotypical relationship portrayed by the media etc.
I also think that many people both male and female stay in relationships even though they are unhappy because a) they don't want to be alone b) convenience c) financial reasons
I was just looking for a personal opinion on girls and boys, based on the people you have come across. How do they seem to you. Not looking for a definitive answer based on everyone in the world, lol. And similar for love. Just your thoughts that's all :)
you got my thoughts :) I'm sorry but I don't know what else to say about it :/
Wednesday, 8 December 2010
Do you think girls are happier than boys? In general. Interested to know what you think. Think there is a lot of pressure on people these days to be seen to conforming to the stereotypical relationship portrayed by the media etc.
again i don't know how I am supposed to know this answer, without researching it. I think both men and women are increasingly becoming more insecure (especially with regards to their looks) due to pressure from the media
Do you think most people know what love is? Boys or girls.
I'm not sure how you expect me to know the answer to such a question :/ wthout researching and asking hundreds of people, I've no idea.
Friday, 3 December 2010
How's the new book coming along? Will we get to read it soon?
yes it's all going well thank you. Lots of guys wanting to help which is great, but I still need more! if you sign up on my site, you'll get a sample of what I'm doing in the next few months :) http://www.rebeccadakin.com/why-men-cheat/
Wednesday, 1 December 2010
How do you game boys without appearing needy, etc? thanx
have a busy social life, lots of friends, be indepenedent, and let guys call/text you ;-p needy people have too much time on their hands!
Have you ever thought of escorting purely for companionship? I'm guessing you did a lot of this before, but it could be your only focus now. A way of helping guys deal with their problems. But perhaps you think guys are beyond help, lol.
er, I do!? I guess you haven't seen my site then? I have platonic dates booked next week. http://www.miss-b.net and new site coming soon, with further dating services and advice for single men.
Tuesday, 30 November 2010
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Monday, 29 November 2010
If you only had a month left to live, what would you do with it?
can't you think fo your own questions? ;-p I'm not good at these generic ones. Erm.... I'd travel the world
Tuesday, 16 November 2010
If you could choose any job in the world to do, or universe, lol, what would it be, and what would you want to achieve while doing it?
Solo singer. I'd like to be a multi million record sales artist who's music like Madonna sustains interest and evolves, through the decades and whose music makes me an icon of a particular music genre :)
Am I the only guy who very often prefers close seductive contact and cuddles to sex? The thing is all women think men only want sex. Any ideas to help allay a woman's fears? But perhaps all the woman wants is sex, lol.
Nope not at all :) I discuss in my book The Girlfriend Experience that it's one of the biggest misconceptions that men only want sex. I made exactly that point, that 'men are a lot more in need of general closeness and love and affection than women give them credit for'. The way to ally a woman's fears is to simply tell her how you feel and show her, by not trying to get into her knickers when you are making out.
Monday, 25 October 2010
What is your advice for people that are unhappy within themselves?
get help! There are lots of books, and advice and support out there, but people are too lazy and just like to moan without being proactive and searching for information on how to change. It's hard work, but do'able once you get the right mind set and work hard at it
What would your ideal man look like. What characteristics and vibe would he ideally have. Would you want to be with him 24/7, or have your time together punctuated with time apart. Do you find it easy to be alone, and happy within yourself.
I don't care about looks... l like a man who looks after himself and is hygienic. I don't want to be with anyone 24/7! I've been single for over 3 years, I'm confident, driven and ambitious, so I don't have time to be bored and lonely, but it would be nice to find that special someone to share my life with