Am I the only guy who very often prefers close seductive contact and cuddles to sex? The thing is all women think men only want sex. Any ideas to help allay a woman's fears? But perhaps all the woman wants is sex, lol.

Nope not at all :) I discuss in my book The Girlfriend Experience that it's one of the biggest misconceptions that men only want sex. I made exactly that point, that 'men are a lot more in need of general closeness and love and affection than women give them credit for'. The way to ally a woman's fears is to simply tell her how you feel and show her, by not trying to get into her knickers when you are making out.

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